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Family Solicitors – The Divorce ProcessGetting A Divorce. Specialist Family Law Solicitors in Salisbury, Andover and Fordingbridge

Getting a divorce can be an incredibly stressful period of your life. But our team of specialist family lawyers based at our offices in Salisbury, Fordingbridge, Andover and Amesbury can help you through the legal maze. We represent divorce clients both locally in Wiltshire, Hampshire, Dorset and Somerset – and throughout England and Wales.

No-fault divorce. With effect from April 6, 2022 the grounds for divorce (see below) no longer applies. They have been replaced by what is known as “no-fault divorce”
See below for a summary of the new changes to divorce

Getting A Divorce – Grounds no longer required

Now that UK’s government’s new “no fault divorce” has been finally introduced, to get a divorce you no longer need to show that your marriage ‘has broken down irretrievably’.  So adultery, unreasonable behaviour,  desertion and separation from your partner are now broadly irrelevant.

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Divorce Procedure

You still cannot get a divorce until you have been married a year. The person applying for the divorce is known as the ‘Petitioner’ and the person they divorce the ‘Respondent’.

  • Our Matrimonial Solicitors recommend divorce is dealt with in as friendly a fashion as possible. Therefore, depending on your wishes, we often suggest starting the divorce procedure by writing to your spouse telling them you are planning a divorce.
  • The first document to complete is the Divorce ‘Petition’ which needs sending to the Divorce County Court. The Divorce Petition contains basic details of you, your spouse, your marriage, any children and the grounds on which the divorce is based. It is accompanied by the original Marriage Certificate and a Court Fee (currently £550 but which may be free if you are on a low income) and if there are children under the age of 18, a separate form setting out proposed arrangements for your children.
  • The County Court sends the Divorce  Petition to your spouse who should complete and return a form sent by the Court
  • Our divorce Solicitors will then prepare a sworn Statement in support of your Divorce Petition and apply for what is known as a Conditional Order (previously known as the Decree Nisi). To make the Conditional Order (in effect a provisional divorce) the Court must be satisfied that you are entitled to a divorce. At this stage the Court will also consider arrangements for your children to ensure  there are proper plans for who the children will live with, where they are educated and contact arrangements with the non resident  parent. At Conditional Order stage the Court will also decide who should pay the costs of the divorce if you and your partner have not agreed who should pay.
  • 6 weeks and a day after Conditional Order you can apply for the Decree to be made Final which legally ends the marriage. Often, however, our divorce solicitors will advise that it is better to wait until all financial matters have been settled before applying for Final Order (previously known as the Decree Absolute). The court fee for Final Order is £50.
  • Unless, in exceptional cases, the divorce is contested or the Court is unhappy about any information they receive, there should be no reason for you to attend Court at any stage.
  • Although every case varies and often the Final Order is delayed to allow financial matters to be resolved, a  straightforward divorce takes on average between 4 and 5 months from beginning to Final Order.
  • Your Will – our matrimonial solicitors strongly recommend that you amend your Will once your divorce is finalized. After Final Order any arrangement in your Will for your former spouse to receive property or to be appointed by your Will as Executor is invalid. So you may  wish to ensure you know who will receive your property if you  die and to ensure you make proper provision for your family. Your divorce solicitor can pass your details to our experienced Wills team.
    Click here to find out why you need a new will and divorce

Changes to the divorce process – 5 ways “no-fault divorce” makes your life easier

The government plans, which came into effect on April 6th, 2022 introduces “no-fault divorce” –  details are contained in the Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Bill.

There are 5 main planks of the reform intended to bring getting a divorce up-to-date and simpler are as follows:

  1. The sole ground for divorce i.e. “irretrievable breakdown of the relationship” remains.

2. However, critically the new rules remove the need to prove one or more “facts“ to prove irretrievable breakdown. This is the “no-fault part – no longer are you forced to prove to the court either adultery, unreasonable behaviour, desertion or separation for 2 or 5 years

3. The language used is updated at last. So, for example:

• Decree Nisi’ is now known as a ‘Conditional Order’
• ‘Decree Absolute’ is nowe known as a ‘Final Order’
• ‘Petitioner’ (the person who puts in the divorce petition) is referred to as the ‘applicant’

4. Joint applications are new. This again fits in with the “no blame” principle because it is now possible, where both parties agree that the relationship has finally broken down, for the application for divorce itself to be made by both parties.
NB it’s worth noting that a sole application is still possible where one party is not willing to take part in a joint application

5. The possibility of contesting divorce, civil partnership dissolution or judicial separation is removed.

NB the new law is really all about the process of getting the divorce itself. It will not have any substantial effect on children’s issues or financial settlements.
Click here to read more about divorce and children

Can I stop my spouse divorcing me?

In theory, the answer is yes – there can be grounds for objecting to a divorce. But beware. It’s very difficult, can prove very expensive, is probably highly stressful and on top of that, there is a good chance you’ll be unsuccessful.
Click here to read more about a defended divorce

Getting A Divorce – Cohabitation Agreements

One of the toughest things when going through divorce or relationship breakdown is continuing to live together under the same roof. Sometimes this is simply unavoidable while the divorce and accompanying financial negotiations go through.
Click here to read about divorce and financial arrangements

If this applies to you, then a written cohabitation agreement can help to keep things on a reasonably friendly level – here are five things to think about putting in such a cohabitation agreement – which our experienced family law and divorce team are happy to help you draft.

1. Day-to-day living arrangements Agreeing on your every living arrangements can be really important  – so that neither of you do anything which, aggravates the situation. For example, decide where each partner is going to sleep, work and relax. The aim is not necessarily to stay out of each other’s way, but to avoid the time where conflict is most likely.

2. Household chores and bills Agree on who is responsible for different household chores and bills. It may be the case that you have now separated your finances, therefore you must have an agreement in place to establish where to money for bills is going to come from. Everyday chores should be divided and both partners should resist relying on one another for food or care.

3. Arrangements for your Children. When getting a divorce, most sensitive issues is the care of any children involved. It is never appropriate to create an atmosphere of resentment and distance if there are children living in the home with you. Where children are concerned it is normally best to avoid separating everything in your day-to-day life. For example, although it may be necessary to sleep in separate rooms, separate dinners and relaxing arrangements may be disruptive to the children. However, the most important thing is to not reflect your feelings about your partner or the stress of the divorce on to their lives.

4. Selling the matrimonial home? Where necessary, try to establish a plan for selling your family property. This will involve working with agents and legal representatives together in order to achieve the best possible realisation for the property. If the property is being viewed, then ensure that either your or your partner is available to tidy the internal accommodation and show people around.

5. Agreed behaviour. Try to agree on what is acceptable and unacceptable social behaviour from both of you. For example, going out on a weekday evening and having respect for the partner that has work the next day. It may be a good idea to agree on what happens if one or the other finds another partner, for example that it may not be acceptable to bring that person back to the shared home.

Could family mediation make the process easier?

If you are unable to agree on any or just some of the above points then it’s worth considering family mediation – which in addition to helping reaching an agreed settlement on your financial settlement and future care of the children, can also help with agreeing practical domestic arrangements in the interim.
Click here to read more about how family mediation works

Does the solicitor I choose make a difference?

Absolutely. And we think it’s largely about the approach your solicitor takes. At Bonallack & Bishop, as far as we’re concerned, divorce is not a battle to be won. It’s a problem to be solved. So it shouldn’t be about scoring points or being aggressive – but trying to reach a sensible solution that everyone can live with, as swiftly and painlessly as possible. Although that doesn’t mean that, if we really need to, we can’t be really tough – but often that kind of stance is simply inappropriate and unnecessary.
Click here to read more about choosing a divorce solicitor

Should I start the divorce off?

Click here to read our page on Is it Better to be the Petitioner or Respondent in a Divorce?

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